The 11 Best Sex Toys For Seniors With Arthritis, Vaginal Dryness, And More

Looking for the best sex toys for seniors with good ergonomics that are easy to hold and operate? Or perhaps a toy that gives you more stimulation to get aroused? We’ve compiled 11 of the best sex toys for seniors with arthritis, vaginal dryness, and more.

As you get older, there are certain considerations that you may need to make when it comes to sex and using sex toys for a fulfilling and fun sex life.

Depending on your age and health, things like getting aroused or reaching orgasm might take you longer, or your joints and bones might require sex toys that are easy to hold to and operate. Taking medication for a variety of health conditions from menopause to diabetes can also affect your sexual satisfaction and function.

A well-chosen sex toy can help you enjoy pleasure and address certain problems you may be experiencing when it comes to sex. Below, we’ve curated the 11 best sex toys for seniors that you can use to enhance your sex life, no matter your age.

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Best sex toys for seniors: Ergonomics

Need a sex toy that is lightweight and easy to hold, with buttons that are easy to operate for arthritis joints? Or perhaps a prop to support you during sex?

Palm Power Extreme Rechargeable Wand Massager

Known as one of the best sex toys for seniors with arthritis or weak wrists, the Palm Power Extreme Rechargeable Wand Massager offers an ergonomic curve to its shape for comfort and ease of use.

Hold it gently against your clitoris for intense stimulation and take your pleasure to the next level with its 5 intensities & 7 rhythms, powered by the Powerbullet motor. Comes in 2 colors.

Dame Com Rechargeable Wand

The Com wand by Dame, one of our favorite sex toy companies, is ergonomic and body hugging. It is a take on the classic wand shape, with an upgraded comfort from the curved handle making it easier to hold while it works its magic.

Besides the curved handle, it also has a flexible neck that contours to your body’s curves while letting you rest your arms to hold the Com at the perfect angle. The Com’s bulbed head can be used over both the clitoris and vulva, and even as an external personal massager for full-body relaxation before and after sex.

An ergonomic sex toy AND a massager? That’s a top contender as one of the best sex toys for seniors.

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OG Pro2 Clitoral Sucking Vibrator by Tracy’s Dog

Looking for a clit sucking vibrator that will stimulate both your G-spot and clitoris simultaneously? We love the OG Pro2 Clitoral Sucking Vibrator by Tracy’s Dog, with its flexible and bendable design that is great for restrictive hand movements, and tailor-made for you to use it in any way you want.

This suction vibrator clitoral toy is 100% waterproof, so have you can take it with you to the bathtub, shower, or even the pool. It also comes with a remote controller, making it a perfect toy with a partner as well as for solo masturbation.

Paris Nubby Clitoral Teaser by Pink B.O.B

If you have limited movement in your hands, you might be interested in using a sex toy that doesn’t require much hand movements. The Paris Nubby Clitoral Teaser by Pink B.O.B. promises to take you to orgasmic levels from the intense vibrations and soft ticklers!

Experience intense clitoral sensations from this unique and powerful clit stimulator, as you let the soft buzzing tickler nubs caress your clit. Explore the 7 vibration functions and find the right level for you.

Best sex toys for seniors: Powerful sensations

You might need more stimulation to get aroused as you get older. Enter these sex toys with a real oomph:


If you are looking for strong vibrations, the SMART WAND™ 2 by LELO is a powerful massager that offers ten different massage patterns for any erogenous zone you want to explore, including the clitoral area.

It comes with a steady handle for stable and reliable control over the intensities, and the long battery life allows you to enjoy hours upon hours of pleasure.

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We-Vibe Melt

The We-Vibe Melt is a powerful yet small Pleasure Air clitoral stimulator developed to allow you (and your partner) to fully experience the intense orgasms of Pleasure Air technology. The patented Pleasure Air surrounds the clitoris with pulsating waves and gentle suction, without touching it. Use it during solo masturbation with its precision clitoral stimulation, or slip it between you and a partner during sex.

Womanizer DUO

The Womanizer DUO features the best of both worlds – dual stimulation pairing contactless clitoral suction with G-spot vibes. Featuring Womanizer’s Pleasure Air Technology, experience the powerful waves of alternating air pressure on your clitoris, while it massages your G-spot with intense internal vibrations. This is the ultimate take on the classic rabbit vibrator.

Best sex toys for seniors: Finger vibrators

If you have mobility issues in your fingers, or have trouble holding a vibrator, these are the best finger vibrators that work with your hand’s natural movement:

Dame Fin Rechargeable Finger Vibrator

The Dame Fin Rechargeable Finger Vibrator is a small yet powerful versatile vibrator worn between the fingers to add stimulating vibration, and it is easy to take on and take off. Use it for foreplay, sex, or solo use… the fun possibilities are endless!

DiGiT Finger Vibrator by Hot Octopuss

Turn your finger into an orgasm superhero with the DiGiT Finger Vibrator by Hot Octopuss, designed to be an extension of your hand! This versatile finger vibrator will enhance the way you masturbate with its large rumbly motor and five power settings, making it a strong contender as one of the best sex toys for seniors. The finger grip on the DiGiT is flexible, meaning one size fits most.

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Best sex toys for seniors: Thrusting dildos

Want a dildo that does the thrusting for you? Your wrists will thank you! 

Luxe Nova Pulsing and Thrusting Dual Vibrator

With a thrusting shaft for pleasurable, throbbing stimulation and a pulsing clitoral stimulator, the Luxe Nova Pulsing and Thrusting Dual Vibrator is the perfect thrusting dildo that does the work for you while giving you unlimited possibilities! Made of body-safe silicone and featuring seven speeds and functions, lube it up and ride on into the night.

Zalo Desire Pre-Heating Rechargeable Thruster

With a super soft tip designed to hug the curves of your intimate zones and auto-thrusting capability unlike any you’ve experienced before, the ZALO Desire Pre-Heating Thruster will take your pleasure to new unexplored territory. Pre-heat it to perfect body temperature before every use at the touch of a button, then insert it to enjoy deeply sensual thrusting sensations.

Because pleasure gets better the more you know what you like and need! Learn more about women sexual wellness, self pleasure tips, and more.