5 Best Strap Ons For Pegging As A Couple – Reviewed [2022]

We review the best strap ons for pegging your partner – from beginner pegging dildos to advanced pegging kits.

Experimenting with new sexual positions and toys to add more spice to the bedroom? Pegging – initially referring to women penetrating men anally – has now expanded to include all genders. Pegging is one of the most fun ways to reach full-body orgasms, when the walnut-sized prostate gland gets properly stimulated through anal penetration.

Related: Strap-On Slipping Out While Pegging? Here’s Our Advice On Pegging For Plus Size Women

For many couples, and especially cishet couples, pegging opens up a new experience of empowerment and vulnerability which brings the couple closer. Daydreaming about sliding a harness up to your hips, bending your partner over, and giving pegging a try? We share 5 of the best strap ons for pegging as preferred by us and our community, from beginner to advanced.


If your partner is new to anal sex and needs more anal training first to feel comfortable with the idea of pegging, check out our comprehensive butt plug guide on how to use a butt plug for the first time.


Here’s a quick look of our recommended best strap ons for pegging, based on categories:

  • Best Strap On Dildo For First Time Pegging: Start your exploration into pegging with this cheap pegging strap on kit, the Joji 3 inch strap on dildo by Honey Play Box. Pegging can be intimidating for first timers, which is why we like that the pegging dildo is small and perfect for beginners.
  • Best Strapless Strap On Dildo for pegging: We recommend the Share Lite double dildo by Fun Factory for a pegging experience that allows both partners to enjoy simultaneous stimulation. One end fits snugly in the vagina while the other end anally penetrates the receiving partner.
  • Best Softer Strap On Dildo for pegging: If you find that other silicone dildos are too firm for liking, then check out the Adam Soft dildo by Tantus, one of our favorite sex toy companies! This dildo is soft and flexible, yet does not feel too stiff or floppy at all.
  • Best Budget Dildo for pegging: Tantus makes dildos from high quality materials, and this Tantus Starter Dildo is priced affordably as a simple yet elegant beginner toy.
  • Best Vibrating Strap On Dildo for pegging: If your partner needs a bit more stimulation through vibration, we like the Pegasus 6″ pegging dildo with harness. You’ll hit all the right spots with its ergonomically curved vibrating dildo.
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Best Strap On Dildo For First Timer

At just 3 inch, this body-safe Joji 3 inch strap on dildo by Honey Play Box is designed for both first-time givers and receivers. This strap on pegging kit also comes with a comfortable adjustable harness and a suction cup.

ProsCons
– Perfect size for beginners not to feel intimidated
– Suction cup allows you to stick the dildo on walls or floor
– Feels like real skin, as the head is completely soft and the shaft is solid at the core
– Dildo might be too small for those who prefer larger sized dildos

When you or your partner is starting out and new to pegging, the last thing you might want is to use a large dildo. We like that the Joji 3 inch strap on dildo by Honey Play Box removes any hesitation around pegging as the dildo is small enough to look comfortable, yet still has the girth for pleasurable p-spot stimulation.

The harness is easy to adjust even during sex, and the straps aren’t so long that they get in the way.

The dildo also has a little of a real-skin feel, where you can feel a bit of movement to it. The head is soft to touch while the shaft has a solid core, which makes it super comfortable during penetration. The only downside we can see if that some people might find the 3 inch dildo a little too small, but that’s down to personal preference and you can easily swap out the dildo with a larger one while using the same harness down the road.

Remember to use lots of water-based lube and make sure that your partner is turned on and relaxed to fully enjoy their new pegging experience. We recommend the Sliquid Natural H20 lube for its quality and price.


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Best Strapless Strap On Dildo

If you’re looking for a strap on dildo that will give you simultaneous pleasure while your partner is bent over and receiving, then we recommending the Share Lite double dildo by Fun Factory.

ProsCons
– Great way for both partners to enjoy stimulation simultaneously
– 22% lighter than the previous model means it doesn’t feel heavy while you wear it
– Adjustable hinge lets you switch positions seamlessly
– Stays noticeably erect throughout, unlike other double-ended dildos
– Might need a harness as it might feel slippery or might not stay put during serious thrusting

While we love the concept of a strapless strap on for mutual stimulation of both partners during pegging, the reality is strapless strap ons are still not 100% slip-proof, especially when you’re wet and need to squeeze your butt cheeks really tightly while thrusting.

The Share Lite double dildo by Fun Factory does do a better job than other strapless strap ons when it comes to weight and comfort of holding the dildo, but we would be remiss not to mention that there is room for improvement when it comes to holding in the Share Lite dildo.

If you want the best experience with pegging while using a strapless strap on, we recommend using a good harness for that extra support. After all, no one likes getting interrupted just when it gets rough and heavy!

Another trick is to keep practicing your Kegels, which will help you to hold onto the strapless strap on dildo like a pro.

Related: The Best Kegel Exercises After Birth (And How To Use Kegel Balls!)


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Best Soft Strap On Dildo

If you find silicone dildos way too firm and painful for your liking, then we recommend the Adam Soft semi-realistic dildo by Tantus.

ProsCons
– Soft silicone material makes this dildo extra comfortable yet not floppy at all
– 7″ insertable and wide girth for that fullness feeling
– Glossy head finish allows it to remain wet and slick once lubed up
– The curved shaft hits the P-spot perfectly
– If you prefer stiffer dildos, this might not feel firm enough or too “limp” for you
– Material attracts dust

The Adam Soft dildo by Tantus has a lot going for it: the curved shaft, the ultra-soft silicone material that allows the dildo to remain soft without being floppy, and the 7″ length and 1.7″ girth for that fullness feeling.

We were initially afraid that the shaft would be too soft, but we are glad to report that it is firm enough not to feel floppy, giving it a realistic feel.

For pegging, the Adam Soft dildo can be strapped into a harness comfortably, and its glossy head should allow for smooth, well-lubed thrusting.


Best Budget Dildo For Pegging

Cheap dildos for pegging don’t have to mean poor quality. Tantus dildos are well-known for their high quality materials, and the Tantus Starter Dildo is perfectly priced and sized for pegging.

ProsCons
– Priced on the cheaper end yet made of high quality ultra-premium silicone
– Small enough to use as a butt plug, yet big enough to use as a dildo with a harness
– It doesn’t have a suction cup to allow you to stick it onto surfaces
– Not for those who prefer girth

The name gives it away – the Tantus Starter Dildo is meant to be your first sex toy, and it is priced affordably for that too. With its rounded tip and slim shaft, this Starter Dildo is definitely perfect for pegging.

At 1″ head with the rounded tip adding an extra oomph, you won’t likely feel like it is too big or scary for anal penetration. If you prefer girth and that fullness feeling, this Starter Dildo won’t be a good fit for you. Just don’t forget to add lots of water-based lube and it should comfortably slip in.


Best Vibrating Strap On Dildo For Pegging

The Pegasus 6″ Pegging Dildo With Harness gives the receiver more stimulation through vibration.

ProsCons
– Vibrations comes with 6 speeds and 15 patterns and are powerful enough to feel the extra pleasure
– Has a bulbous tip for deep, satisfying penetration
– Comes with a wireless remote control that can allow your partner to be in control of the vibrations
– Also has a suction cup if you wish to use the dildo for solo play
– Pricey as compared to other strap on dildos for pegging

If you need a pegging strap on dildo that comes with vibration, then the Pegasus 6″ Pegging Dildo With Harness has you covered with its 6 Speed & 15 Patterns vibrations and a wireless remote control.

You can allow your partner to control the vibration’s intensity easily, while its curved head design allows you to hit the right angles with every thrust.

The harness feels comfortable to wear for long period, and the strap material feels premium too. Definitely does not feel like a cheap harness that will break down even with all the heavy thrusting.


How to choose the best pegging sex toys for you

With so many pegging sex toys and strap ons for pegging available, it might feel overwhelming to decide which one is best for you and your partner.

Dildo size

The basic guideline to choosing the best pegging sex toy for you is to see how comfortable you and your partner is with anal play. If you both are new to pegging or anal play, then stick with the basics: go with a smaller dildo and pick a quality comfortable harness. Don’t be ambitious with size, and skip the strapless strap ons.

You would also want to decide on the sex toy together, since your partner will be the one receiving. Discuss what size dildo will feel most comfortable, as well as the angle and ridges. If your partner is new to pegging, avoid dildos with ridges as that can be too much stimulation too soon.

A less curved dildo would also feel best for beginners to pegging, as many pegging dildos are curved for p-spot stimulation.

Harness

Even the harness matters when it comes to pegging. Pick a cheap or ill-fitting harness and you’ll find that you might experience skin irritation from all that abrasions. Cheap harnesses also tend to have low-quality straps, which means you’ll need to keep adjusting your harness during pegging (not fun!).

When you are buying a harness, consider the quality of the material as well as whether you will be using it for yourself or if you will be sharing it. If you plan on sharing the harness with a partner or several partners, then you will need to consider the harness waist size.

If you are considering going strapless strap ons for pegging, know that using a strapless strap on is rather difficult and uncomfortable for newbies as it requires lots of practice holding in the strapless dildo.

Versatility

Do you plan on using the dildo for other plays? If so, go for a versatile pegging dildo with an O-ring system. O-rings allow you to use different dildo sizes with the harness so you can swap the dildo for something bigger or smaller.

If you want to also use the dildo for solo play, then you would want to get a pegging dildo with a suction base at the bottom so that you can attach it securely to walls or the floor.

Budget

Buying a strap on dildo for pegging does not have to be expensive. Check out Tantus’ Starter Dildo (as featured above) for a really affordable yet high quality dildo perfect for pegging.

Avoid going for cheap sex toys as they are likely to be made with toxic materials that is really bad for your body. With as little as $30, you can get a quality dildo made with body safe materials from reputable brands like Tantus and Fun Factory. Add a little more for a quality harness as well.


Want to learn more about how to peg someone for the first time, as well as the best pegging sex positions? Read our guide on pegging here!

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